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I Don’t Like Vibrators – Are There Other Toys To Try?

We are huge fans of vibrations, but we have many customers who aren’t into buzzing toys. For some, vibrations feel “weird” or just doesn’t get them off. We have one lovely customer for whom toys don’t do the job at all (vibrating or not). We spent an afternoon tape-measuring every

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Rekindling Intimacy after Hysterectomy

We receive so many emails from customers looking for advice. We’ll share some of these questions with you (anonymously, of course), as we know there will be so many more readers who will benefit from the answers and know that they are not alone. Below is an email from a

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Curious About Cunnilingus?

Cunnilingus, aka kissing the clam, eating out, dining at the Y… There are so many synonyms for feasting on a vulva! Whatever you like to call it, oral sex is a tasty treat for two. Many women feel vulnerable when the focus is on their pleasure. We worry that we

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Win a Shush Life course for someone special!

Win the perfect Christmas gift! A Shush Life course is the perfect gift for a good friend across the miles. There is no need to waste time queuing up in a hot post office to post a parcel that won’t arrive on time… Instead, the gift will land directly in

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I’m straight but have lesbian sex dreams: What does it mean?

According to one survey, 48% of participants experience sex dreams. We think the number is far higher since we don’t always remember what we dream about. For straight women, lesbian sex dreams are common, even if the dreamer hasn’t ever fancied herself in a relationship with another woman. Lesbian sex

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I Don’t Like Vibrators – Are There Other Toys To Try?

We are huge fans of vibrations, but we have many customers who aren’t into buzzing toys. For some, vibrations feel “weird” or just doesn’t get them off. We have one lovely customer for whom toys don’t do the job at all (vibrating or not). We spent an afternoon tape-measuring every

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Rekindling Intimacy after Hysterectomy

We receive so many emails from customers looking for advice. We’ll share some of these questions with you (anonymously, of course), as we know there will be so many more readers who will benefit from the answers and know that they are not alone. Below is an email from a