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How to Choose a Lube

There is a misogynistic myth about lube floating around; something about “old women” and “dry vaginas.” It must have been invented by someone who doesn’t understand how bodies and pleasure works. There is no shame in needing or wanting lube for a sesh. For pleasureful sex, you need lube. It’s

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Valentine’s Day: Gifts That Keep On Giving!

Valentine’s Day is almost upon us, and it won’t be a surprise to hear we’re giddy with excitement! We promote love, self-care and self-pleasure all year round, so of course, we’re EXTRA for V-Day! And by “extra,” we don’t mean diamonds or a surprise trip to Necker Island (wouldn’t say

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I Don’t Like Vibrators – Are There Other Toys To Try?

We are huge fans of vibrations, but we have many customers who aren’t into buzzing toys. For some, vibrations feel “weird” or just doesn’t get them off. We have one lovely customer for whom toys don’t do the job at all (vibrating or not). We spent an afternoon tape-measuring every

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Rekindling Intimacy after Hysterectomy

We receive so many emails from customers looking for advice. We’ll share some of these questions with you (anonymously, of course), as we know there will be so many more readers who will benefit from the answers and know that they are not alone. Below is an email from a

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Curious About Cunnilingus?

Cunnilingus, aka kissing the clam, eating out, dining at the Y… There are so many synonyms for feasting on a vulva! Whatever you like to call it, oral sex is a tasty treat for two. Many women feel vulnerable when the focus is on their pleasure. We worry that we

Lube - a blue pump bottle with a drizzle dripping out

How to Choose a Lube

There is a misogynistic myth about lube floating around; something about “old women” and “dry vaginas.” It must have been invented by someone who doesn’t understand how bodies and pleasure works. There is no shame in needing or wanting lube for a sesh. For pleasureful sex, you need lube. It’s

Two red heart-shaped balloons for Valentine's day

Valentine’s Day: Gifts That Keep On Giving!

Valentine’s Day is almost upon us, and it won’t be a surprise to hear we’re giddy with excitement! We promote love, self-care and self-pleasure all year round, so of course, we’re EXTRA for V-Day! And by “extra,” we don’t mean diamonds or a surprise trip to Necker Island (wouldn’t say