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Win a Shush Life course for someone special!

Win the perfect Christmas gift! A Shush Life course is the perfect gift for a good friend across the miles. There is no need to waste time queuing up in a hot post office to post a parcel that won’t arrive on time… Instead, the gift will land directly in

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I’m straight but have lesbian sex dreams: What does it mean?

According to one survey, 48% of participants experience sex dreams. We think the number is far higher since we don’t always remember what we dream about. For straight women, lesbian sex dreams are common, even if the dreamer hasn’t ever fancied herself in a relationship with another woman. Lesbian sex

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Light My Fire – Brand New Course for Couples!

Come on baby; Light My Fire! We’ve been working on this for a while, and we’re so excited we can finally share the news with you: Our brand new online course Light My Fire is here! First and foremost, Light My Fire is designed for peeps who want to flirt,

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Sexual Fantasies: Should You Tell All?

Sexual fantasies – everyone has them. Some fantasies are sweet and romantic; others are hot, wet and juicy. The latter ones are our faves, obvs! Fantasies are often based on previous sexual encounters or something we’ve seen and would like to experience for ourselves. Sharing a sexy fantasy with your

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Vaginal Health: Is There Something Fishy Going On?

Vaginal steaming hit the headlines recently, with celebrities like Gwyneth Paltrow and Chrissy Teigen giving their vaginas what is essentially a hot facial for the vulva. This is all in the name of vaginal health, but we’re not buying what these gals are selling. The vagina is designed to keep

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I Don’t Like Vibrators – Are There Other Toys To Try?

We are huge fans of vibrations, but we have many customers who aren’t into buzzing toys. For some, vibrations feel “weird” or just doesn’t get them off. We have one lovely customer for whom toys don’t do the job at all (vibrating or not). We spent an afternoon tape-measuring every

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Rekindling Intimacy after Hysterectomy

We receive so many emails from customers looking for advice. We’ll share some of these questions with you (anonymously, of course), as we know there will be so many more readers who will benefit from the answers and know that they are not alone. Below is an email from a