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Knowledge is Pleasure.

Explore expert advice on sex, pleasure, relationships and wellbeing. From beginner-friendly guides and product advice to confidence-building tips and honest conversations, our articles help you learn, explore and enjoy pleasure on your own terms.

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  • Jul 10

What (and Where) is the Clitoris?

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The clitoris is one of the most important pleasure organs in the human body — yet many people still don’t know how it works. Explore clitoral anatomy, the internal clitoris, orgasm, and ways to better understand this incredible structure.
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  • Jun 30

How to Choose a Lube

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Lube isn’t a sign that anything is wrong with your body — it’s a pleasure essential. Discover the benefits of water-based, silicone, and hybrid lubricants, how to choose the right formula, and why adding lube can transform your sex life.
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  • May 18

Masturbation Tips: Top 10 Ideas For Boosting Self-Pleasure

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Want more orgasms? Explore 10 expert masturbation tips covering lube, pelvic floor engagement, breathing techniques, sex toys, edging, and more ways to enhance your self-pleasure routine.
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  • May 9

The Masturbation Survey: How Often Do You Flick Your Bean or Stroke Your Sausage?

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What do people really think about masturbation? We surveyed our customers to discover self-pleasure habits, including how often people masturbate, favourite techniques, orgasm experiences, relationship attitudes, and more.
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  • Apr 8

The G-Spot: What It Is & How To Find It

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Is the G-spot real, or just a sexual myth? Discover what the G-spot actually is, where to find this pleasure area, how to explore stimulation, and why everyone’s experience is different.
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  • Mar 30

Female Ejaculation & Squirting

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Is squirting real? Yes — but there’s more to female ejaculation and squirting than the myths suggest. Learn what squirting is, how it happens, the difference between fluids, and why pleasure matters more than performance.
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  • Mar 19

Rabbit Vibrators: How to Choose and Use a Dual-Stimulation Toy

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Rabbit vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys for a reason — they combine internal and external stimulation to help many people explore powerful orgasms.
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  • Mar 12

The U-Spot: What It Is & Why You Should Explore It

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The U-spot is a lesser-known pleasure area located around the urethral opening. Learn what the U-spot is, where to find it, how to stimulate it, and how to explore this sensitive area comfortably.
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  • Feb 14

Curious About Cunnilingus?

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Cunnilingus, or oral sex on a vulva, can be an incredibly pleasurable and intimate experience when approached with confidence, communication and curiosity.
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  • Oct 15, 2025

Most Popular Sex Positions: Benefits & Orgasm Rating

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Discover the most popular sex positions, including doggy style, missionary, cowgirl and 69. Learn which positions can boost pleasure, intimacy and orgasms.
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  • Sep 20, 2025

Blow Jobs: The 3 Most Common Questions From Our Customers

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Want to learn how to give a better blow job? This guide answers common questions about oral sex, from handling different sizes and improving confidence to communication, comfort and personal preferences.
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  • Jul 30, 2025

National Orgasm Day Tips

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From warming up your body and mind to exploring erogenous zones and finding the right vibrator, this guide is packed with practical tips to help you boost your pleasure and make every day feel like National Orgasm Day.